I agree, it's not about the ring! Some married couples I know don't even wear the ring regularly, but their relationship as married couple is strong naman.
Anyway K, I have a [**new blog**][1]. Kwento ko na lang kung bakit dun sa latest entry ko. Paki-update mo na lang ulit ang link ah! =)
wether u have it or not ang pinaka mahalaga ay nagmamahalan kayo ng lubos, tapos ang usapan.
btw tsong i find you cheerful and nice and not a snob =)
K
· 1 year ago
Diane, link updated. Don't worry, as long as you leave traces, I'll follow.
K
· 1 year ago
And you are leaving the blogosphere, Dencio. Goodluck, let us know when you're back. Thank you for being nice on this blog. Sayang, mawawalan na naman ako ng regular reader and commenter. Anyhoola, if you can't blog, you can still read blogs, right?
Take care!
cheh
· 1 year ago
Naalala ko tuloy yung usapan namin ng aking matalik na friend tungkol riyan sa mga singsing exactly 6 years ago (2002) habang tumutungga ng Wine sa Irish Pub.Halos lahat kasi ng daliri nya mayroong singsing,nagbiro ako lahat ata ng singsing suot suot mo na,ala ng paglagyan kung ika'y makakasal.Cra! sabi nya! ako at ikaw ay pang best friends material lang noh! hindi pang maybahay material.Ewan ko ba bigla akong nag panic sa sinabi nya.Nabigla tuloy ako sa pagpapakasal hahaha no kidding feeling ko kasi pag trenta ka na.huling huli ka na sa biyahe.Hindi naman pala,lol Contrary sa girl I've enjoyed my singlehood.Yan ata advantage pag trenta na nag asawa eh na enjoy mo lahat ng gimik at lakwatsa.
duke
· 1 year ago
iba naman sa amin ng husband ko.
our wedding ring is very important to us. It's a physical reminder of the vows we made when we got married. sa likod ng wedding ring ko i have his name and our wedding date and sa kanya he has my name and our wedding date.
Commitment can be shown in many forms. some prefer not to show it. others do. depende lang talaga sa preference natin.
so waht if you are thirthy something. as long as you are happy and you are living your life to the fullest... keber! lol
duke
· 1 year ago
where did my comment go?
Sofie
· 1 year ago
Hello K!
For others the ring may not be important but for some, what it symbolizes is what matters.
I guess, women most of the time are the ones who really treasure the ring. I, for one, I treasure my ring so much. Actually both my hub and I, we don't remove our ring from our fingers, not at all, unless someone would like to see them or we would like to show them something. Opps, no diamonds. :)
K
· 1 year ago
Cheh, yikes di ko pa alam ang mga "engagement" na yan - wala na ata sa isipan ko yan. On the contrary. I can't stand seeing women with too much ring on their fingers, parang nakaka silaw sya masyado.
A friend of mine even asked my opinion kung ano daw ang tamang wedding ring, white, gold or with diamonds. Sabi ko, ay bahala kayo, basta pag dating ng panahon na hindi na kayo, pwede mong isanla ang diamond ring. Kaya, they decided, ok, platinum gold na lang at nagmamahalan pa rin sila hanggang ngayon. The wife would sometime nag at her husband kung minsan hindi nakalagay sa daliri. Natakot bigla, at binalik agad. Ganun ba yun?
K
· 1 year ago
Thanks for the backup. All the way supportive ka talaga on my singlehood.
I heard there are women who wears two wedding rings, one from an engagement and the other, a real diamond (for social function). I don't see the point there, perhaps it's part of an accessory na rin just in case you've forgotten you're either cooking or doing household chores, wouldn't you remove it para di magasgasan ang diamonds?
K
· 1 year ago
The akismet caught your previous comment, you inputted a wrong email address. Sensitive masyado ang akismet, pasensya ha?
K
· 1 year ago
Understood. When two individual are committed to each other, a wedding ring should be worn 24/7 - it's a sacred sign for married people. Also, wedding rings are highly symbolic pieces of jewelery, and it is likely you will want to wear your ring all the time, with or without a diamonds.
I have a question, say if a husband forgotten to wear his wedding ring, maybe after taking a shower, do wives really force their husband to wear it?
Sofie
· 1 year ago
Hello K!
Hmmm, I really don't know. Hub never removed and don't remove his ring even when he's taking a bath or taking a shower just like me. Maybe if ever it's going to happen I'm really going to tell him too. Just maybe? :)
It's quite a big deal for some wives because it indicates that you're married and if you don't wear it, it's like something is not right. It says, "girls, keep off, the guy is married" and it's like telling the guys too, "guys, keep off, the girl is married too". :)
K
· 1 year ago
It's like whether you like the ring or not, WEAR IT or you will sleep in the couch, hahaha.
At any rate, I think wedding bands are beautiful, both on women and men. I am thinking of finding one for myself (only), a platinum maybe.
But really, what if a man loses the ring? Is this acceptable? I guess if we give too much attention to the ring it becomes a powerful object, don't you think?
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Anyway K, I have a [**new blog**][1]. Kwento ko na lang kung bakit dun sa latest entry ko. Paki-update mo na lang ulit ang link ah! =)
[1]: http://msdianeg.blogspot.com/
wether u have it or not ang pinaka mahalaga ay nagmamahalan kayo ng lubos, tapos ang usapan.
btw tsong i find you cheerful and nice and not a snob =)
Take care!
our wedding ring is very important to us. It's a physical reminder of the vows we made when we got married. sa likod ng wedding ring ko i have his name and our wedding date and sa kanya he has my name and our wedding date.
Commitment can be shown in many forms. some prefer not to show it. others do. depende lang talaga sa preference natin.
so waht if you are thirthy something. as long as you are happy and you are living your life to the fullest... keber!
lol
For others the ring may not be important but for some, what it symbolizes is what matters.
I guess, women most of the time are the ones who really treasure the ring. I, for one, I treasure my ring so much. Actually both my hub and I, we don't remove our ring from our fingers, not at all, unless someone would like to see them or we would like to show them something. Opps, no diamonds. :)
A friend of mine even asked my opinion kung ano daw ang tamang wedding ring, white, gold or with diamonds. Sabi ko, ay bahala kayo, basta pag dating ng panahon na hindi na kayo, pwede mong isanla ang diamond ring. Kaya, they decided, ok, platinum gold na lang at nagmamahalan pa rin sila hanggang ngayon. The wife would sometime nag at her husband kung minsan hindi nakalagay sa daliri. Natakot bigla, at binalik agad. Ganun ba yun?
I heard there are women who wears two wedding rings, one from an engagement and the other, a real diamond (for social function). I don't see the point there, perhaps it's part of an accessory na rin just in case you've forgotten you're either cooking or doing household chores, wouldn't you remove it para di magasgasan ang diamonds?
I have a question, say if a husband forgotten to wear his wedding ring, maybe after taking a shower, do wives really force their husband to wear it?
Hmmm, I really don't know. Hub never removed and don't remove his ring even when he's taking a bath or taking a shower just like me. Maybe if ever it's going to happen I'm really going to tell him too. Just maybe? :)
It's quite a big deal for some wives because it indicates that you're married and if you don't wear it, it's like something is not right. It says, "girls, keep off, the guy is married" and it's like telling the guys too, "guys, keep off, the girl is married too". :)
At any rate, I think wedding bands are beautiful, both on women and men. I am thinking of finding one for myself (only), a platinum maybe.
But really, what if a man loses the ring? Is this acceptable? I guess if we give too much attention to the ring it becomes a powerful object, don't you think?